At the start of each new year many teachers and coaches want to help you make this one your “best ever!” And so they should, as do I. But what most coaches focus on are setting goals rather than coaching you in how to first BE a different you (that is think, feel, and believe differently), in order to create new and different results. Big difference. Let me explain.
Creating (which we are doing all the time through our conscious and unconscious thoughts and what we give our attention to in order to find greater happiness) happens from the inside-out. That is, how you think, feel and believe – the thought energy you are expressing all the time (knowingly or unknowingly) is what you attract back into your reality. If you are trying to achieve a greater level of results but go at it with the same level of consciousness, chances are you won’t be as successful as you hoped to be, and outer conditions will remain pretty much the same as they always had.
For example, let’s say as a child your parents were busing coping with life in the best way they knew how and you felt unloved in the way you wanted or needed. As a result, you made a decision based on an interpretation that those who were supposed to love you were unavailable to care for you — and maybe even that you were “unlovable.” Fast forward 25 years and you became attracted to a spouse who was . . . you guessed it . . . unavailable or unable to love you. Then comes a divorce, and you both go your separate ways, followed by a new attraction to a partner who acts the very same way. You finally understand that changing partners is not the solution, but changing your beliefs about who you are in the world (the way you are being) is what’s needed.
The point is this: creating (often referred to as “manifesting” in today’s language) what you want has to first start with the awareness of where you are and what needs to change in your thinking – rather than trying to manipulate outer circumstances with no lasting effect. My job, as a coach, is to help you become more aware of what’s going on, as well as more inspired about your future so you have a greater ability to choose and act differently than you otherwise would.
So what does it take to really cause change from the inside-out? Here are the five most important principles that that you need to do in order to successfully drive the creative/manifesting process:
- Understand what actually drives your behaviors and results.
- Decide if those “drivers” are serving you or not.
- Choose and implement new ways of being that are directly related to your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs.
- Imagine and create new soul intentions (aligned with your deep heart-felt desires) arising from your new way of being in the world.
- Align and partner with the powerful non-physical energies of creation, and courageously respond to exciting impulses, insights, and ideas that arise in your mind.
Based on these five principles I have developed a powerful questionnaire that will prompt your gaining new awareness. In turn, this new awareness will give you the ability to shift your consciousness and necessarily your way of being in the world. To download your questionnaire CLICK HERE to start your new year off on the right foot — from the inside-out rather than trying to manipulate circumstances from the outside-in.
And, here’s the bonus: let me review your answers with you during a complimentary coaching session to help you implement the “new you” and make 2016 a truly miraculous and amazing experience. Just email me at firstname.lastname@example.org to start the scheduling process and we will make it happen!
Don’t let this opportunity pass you by. Email me today to set up a time for us to talk!
To your success!