Have you ever gotten to a place of momentary awareness that your life has been shaped by a belief that turned into a way of living that no longer serves you? I have. It happened again recently as I was listening to a webinar talk about something that was actually unrelated to my new ‘ah-ha’ awareness. I saw how my whole life evolved from this one decision that colored everything that happened after that, even though I was totally unaware of how I was shaping my own destiny with the paradigm I was holding as true.The thing about these paradigms, in addition to our often being unaware of them, is that they are neither true nor false, but are acted out according to the power we give them. Whatever happens is deeply affected by the thoughts and determination you hold relative to your underlying beliefs. If you feel like a victim in some circumstances, or undeserving in others, you attract those results. If you feel like a winner and a powerful creator, that’s what you get. The point is this: no paradigm is best, or right, or wrong. Beliefs just attract back the energy of the feeling-thought unconsciously expressed.
Is there a way to get clear about your underlying beliefs so you can change your thoughts and change your life? In part ‘yes,’ in part ‘no.’ The yes part can be found in a process I share in my new book, The Joy of Living — Seven Steps to Give Up Worry, Open Your Heart, and Love Your Life now available on Amazon. Click this link to check it out: The Joy of Living.
The ‘no’ part has to do with the combination of readiness along with the request for help to find your answer that the “Universe,” or your intuition, is always ready to answer. Life is an unfolding journey that flows from experience, beliefs, lessons learned, insights, and frustration from which asking for help often occurs. But that’s life: the happy parts and the unhappy ones. But as one of my teachers says, celebrate the unhappy parts as they are the ones that lead to desire for change and expansion. Which is what living is all about.
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